Dear Single Mum

Dear Single Mum, Sometimes our inability to forgive any one ,can sometimes be traced to our knowledge/understanding regarding God's willingness to accomplish justice on our behalf . When we have been unjustly wronged/ harmed , it is normal to want to seek some sort of vindication most especially when the offender feels no remorse. However we are required as Christians to forgive. Yet the one we should forgive is utterly insensitive, not remorseful at all and take sheer delight in making others uncomfortable. Surely , It is a lot easier to ignore all legitimate & Spiritual justice promises and take matters into our own hands especially as the thoughts of our offender getting away with the matter causes us a major emotional disequilibrium yet we are required as Christians to forgive. How do we trust that God will get justice for us? Should we even be asking for justice? How should we forgive? Where do we start from ? Duro Owodunni Dear Single Mum enjoys writing about Trauma and ...

  Dear Single mum It is time for you to heal, from your hurts, disappointment , discouragement, mistreatment and frustration.It is a provision that he has made available via his scriptures and because he honours his word more than his name:you can believe his promises in Jeremiah 30 vs 17.      For I will make you well again and heal your wounds          I, the Eternal One, declare to you,      Because they have called you an outcast:          “ Look,  it is Zion, the one for whom no one cares.” (The Voice). His words does not just promise you healing, restoration is on the plate as well. “And I will compensate you for the years       That the swarming locust has eaten, The creeping locust, the stripping locust, and the gnawing locust—      My great army which I sent among you. (Amp) There is "technology" in the things of God that fav...

Dear Single Mum Areas to review before you step into a new phase. 1. Spiritual growth & Progress- Have you made any progress? What do you need to do in this area? 2. Mindset - What have you done to support your mental transformation? What Books should you be reading? What Seminar/Conference should you be investing in? 3. Health - What area should you be paying attention to? Health insurance ? Food Habits? Rest ? Exercises? Mental health ? Food & Veg ? Pap smear? Regular check-ups? Me time? 4. Financial Progress - Assets ? Liabilities ? Capital Projects ? Extra Source of Income ? Pay rise? New Job? New Skill? 5. Relationships - How to handle Toxic people,Conflicts & Resolution Management,Emotional intelligence skills,Positioning yourself for advantageous connections, 6. Purpose/Goal/Calling -What should you be doing? What have you done? 7. Children - What plans do you have for them? What plans will they like to achieve for themselves,Have you scheduled regular Family /h...

 Dear Single Mum In the Coming Year, you will do well to manage one of the Most sensitive yet generally ignored aspect of your life: Your Time. Wanted by all, including your self yet limited to 24 hours in a day just like all. How you carefully manage your Time will be your ticket to managing several resources that comes your way. Every one ,every where is constantly seeking your attention by providing information that you will need to filter quickly through 3 lenses. 1.How can I use this new information? Note that If it is an old information, why do you need to sit many hours through it when you can be learning something new elsewhere. 2.Why must I use this new information? Is it necessary for me to sit through this information? Many years back in my teenage years,i use to attend this Pentecostal church  that had a presiding Bishop who went through frequent Mission trips back then to the United States from Nigeria.Every time he came back from a trip we  were required to ...

Dear Single Mum It is important to ask God for Directions Direction for location,Job offers,Marital destiny, school for the children, child minders, after school child care arrangements, the list is endless. Lord help us all in 2022! Single Mum remember that the good lord says in Psalm 37 vs 23: "the lord directs the steps of the godly, he delights in every detail of their lives". Will you be godly enough to pray for directions? So that he can take delight in every detail of your life. Prayer Point: Dear Lord let me hear your instructions distinctively in 2022.Isiah 30 vs 20  May you recognise the voice of master Jesus your teacher vs 21 and whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear this command behind you: "This is the way walk in it" Gen 26 vs 2 God appeared to Issac with detailed instructions and by Gen 26 vs 13,Issac waxed great & he progressed as a result of the detailed instructions that he followed. Prayer for the grace to also bel...

 Dear Single Mum Where do you start praying? This is usually a tricky bit as starting off on any foot within the Christian theology & principle can be daunting. I usually advise ,start anywhere. God is such a merciful God that as soon as you start to engage in actively praying, you will find navigation very soon. He is eager to meet with you as well. Why? the entire human race is a battle between sides. The lord side and the side of the enemy. Why will God make your association with him any more difficult that it should necessarily be ? Let us start with Discernment Discernement  May God provide you with Discernment in 2022 to discern between good and bad, between clean and unclean, between right and wrong, between righteous and wicked, between good and evil. You get the drift. There are some things that are not just within your plain sight and will require in-depth discernment to understand. As women we are blessed with natural antenna that picks up vital signals very qui...

 Dear Single Mum, Being a single Mum can be very difficult.The journey is stressful ,lonely and often frustrating but the good news is that Christ wants to Journey with you along the way. Yes ! Every step of the way because He is interested in you and your family. The family unit is one of the areas that he has special interest in and he is not always happy when your family is broken. Whatever the circumstances that led to your situation, he is right there by your side asking that you receive and believe him because He has the Plan, powers and ability to turn things around. Have you ever wondered why women can be so much on the firing line in life? It is because we are created specially to carry Gods plan and agenda for human race. We preserve, nurture and birth his plans from seed form to maturity. When the home unit is structured, good and nice it will be difficult for the products of such homes to fail in their  God given plans on earth.Lapses in structure, discipline and p...