Trusting God enough to forgive People-1

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Dear Single Mum,

Sometimes our inability to forgive any one ,can sometimes be traced to our knowledge/understanding regarding God's willingness to accomplish justice on our behalf .


When we have been unjustly wronged/ harmed , it is normal to want to seek some sort of vindication most especially when the offender feels no remorse. However we are required as Christians to forgive.


Yet the one we should forgive is utterly insensitive, not remorseful at all and take sheer delight in making others uncomfortable.


Surely , It is a lot easier to ignore all legitimate & Spiritual justice promises and take matters into our own hands especially as the thoughts of our offender getting away with the matter causes us a major emotional disequilibrium yet we are required as Christians to forgive.


How do we trust that God will get justice for us?

Should we even be asking for justice?

How should we forgive?

Where do we start from ?


Duro Owodunni Dear Single Mum enjoys writing about Trauma and the Christian Single Mum.

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